Transforming Shame – June 8 & 9
What do you think of this little video that overviews the Transforming Shame training coming up this week?
Go here to learn more: http://trieft.org/events/master/shame
What do you think of this little video that overviews the Transforming Shame training coming up this week?
Go here to learn more: http://trieft.org/events/master/shame
Sometimes, as process observers, we get lost. We can lose our way in the room, for a variety of reasons.
Perhaps the process we’re observing and reflecting is disorganized or complex.
Or maybe we our alliance with one partner is a bit off.
Perhaps their story is too close to our own.
Or, we just might not know what to do next to be the most helpful.
If you’re thrown off, what do you do?
This is really important as an EFT Therapist.
If you don’t know what to do in those moments, you can try doing what I do and that will help you create your own version of what to do, because ultimately being authentically engaged in the process is key.
When I get thrown out of attunement, here’s what I do:
The point being I have to know where I am, and connect with them if I’m going to guide the process in a way they can have an experience of connection with each other.
Our clients are astute connection detectors!
It’s really important for you to feel solid, be attuned and transparent while you’re tracking and normalizing. It creates safety and safety is key.