Blog for Couples

Here’s some links to my thoughts on improving marriage and ways you can help your most important relationship.


“Hold Me Tight” Conservations

Help Your Husband Help You and Get You: 3 Easy Steps

How to Make a Repair

Love Science Helps Marriages

The Science of Love: Free Online Seminar

The Happiness Habit

Danger Signs for “Close-Call Friendship”

Recognize if your marriage has a deep injury, and HEAL IT!

Protect your marriage: Relationship Help

Are you caught in a criticize/defend pattern?

Cultivating Attachment Moments

Note: The majority of postings on this blog are based on the principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).

I acknowledge Susan Johnson for her vast contributions to the field of Marriage and Family Therapy and to couples across the world through her development of EFT. Without her influence I would flounder. Thank you, Sue.

“Hold me tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love” is the title of a book written by Dr. Susan M. Johnson, EFT co-originator.

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Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

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