
Therapist to therapist


Hold Me Tight – Workshop Beginnings
It was Nov. 2008 when I walked into a large church filled with couples. Finally. After getting lost on the freeway – back in the days when I didn’t have GPS – I arrived late, late enough the coordinators of the workshop were a bit worried about an on-time start. The couples were there for […]


The Social Regulation of Emotion – Jim Coan
Gotta love this guy and his research – I hope you enjoy and learn how important attachment really is to our health and well being.

Cycle Expanded Visually
For those of you who like visuals, here’s an expansion of Scott Woolley’s cycle loop by EFT Supervisor June Shigeno. I’d love it if you commented on what stands out for you that you think is helpful conceptually, this will assist those who aren’t so visual. Please leave your comments.

The EFT Tango
The Five Process Moves Of EFT, by Sue Johnson

Love Hero
Today I share a poem by Certified EFT Therapist and Supevisor-In-Training Jennifer Olden about learning Emotionally Focused Therapy. LOVE HERO by Jennifer Olden To the discouraged EFT therapist You will fail. Utterly. Profoundly. You will fail. There will be a failed enactment, a failed session and a failed couple. And more than one. Just settle […]

Shame
Some of you have been reading the discussion on the EFT list about therapist shame in learning a new treatment model and how being back in a vulnerable learning place can trigger our own shame. The book: Shame In The Therapy Hour came up as helpful in the discussion. I was so excited about this […]

Tech 101
I was fortunate to present on using technology at the EFT Summit with professional videographer, recording artist and musician extraordinaire Rick Savage. One cool thing I learned from him is to FORMAT your video card after you transfer your files off of it EVERY TIME. He explained that what can happen, and commonly happens, is […]
Transforming Shame – June 8 & 9
What do you think of this little video that overviews the Transforming Shame training coming up this week? Go here to learn more: http://trieft.org/events/master/shame